How I Ally
Welcome to How I Ally—where we talk about the fun, lighthearted world of… postpartum recovery, traumatic birth, and infertility. Yeah, not exactly small talk at brunch. I sit down with experts who actually know what they’re talking about—because let’s be honest, Google can only take you so far. Each episode builds on interviews published in Authority Magazine, but now with real voices and real conversations—because reading is hard when you haven’t slept in weeks. But as it turns out, this isn’t a podcast about parenting. This is a podcast about transformation. This is a podcast about the unseen labor of being broken down, then re-building yourself from the rubble. This is a podcast about people who have created their own post-trauma growth, and now they are sharing their stories, reaching out as if to ask you directly, how can I be your ally? Subscribe now. Because this is how I ally. How will you?
Episodes

Saturday Feb 22, 2025
Breaking the Silence: Gloria Kolb’s Journey to Revolutionize Women’s Health
Saturday Feb 22, 2025
Saturday Feb 22, 2025
Gloria Kolb, the brilliant CEO and co-founder of Elida, joins us to chat about her groundbreaking work in women's health, specifically tackling incontinence with her innovative Elitone device. Her personal journey with incontinence spurred her to create a solution that’s not just effective but also non-intrusive, breaking the mold of traditional treatments that often leave women feeling sidelined. We dive deep into the unique challenges female founders face in the notoriously male-dominated medical device industry, especially when it comes to securing funding and societal support. Gloria sheds light on the staggering statistics that show only a fraction of healthcare funding goes towards women's health innovations, and how this impacts early treatment options. With a dash of humor and a whole lot of heart, we explore the importance of open conversations about pelvic floor health and the mission to provide accessible solutions for all women, especially those in underserved communities.Gloria Kolb's journey to creating Elida is nothing short of inspiring. As a biomedical engineer and a mother of three, she found herself grappling with incontinence after childbirth—something that many women face but often feel too embarrassed to discuss. Gloria shares her personal story of struggle and resilience, which led her to develop the Elitone device, a groundbreaking solution that offers a non-intrusive way to improve pelvic floor health. This conversation dives deep into the challenges faced by female founders in the medical device industry, where funding disparities are stark. Did you know that only 2% of venture capital goes to female founders? Gloria sheds light on the uphill battle for funding and the societal stigma surrounding women’s health issues, emphasizing the need for more awareness and support in this area. The episode also addresses the broader implications of incontinence on women’s lives, from social interactions to mental health, highlighting the importance of early treatment and open conversations about these taboo topics. Through her work, Gloria is not only changing lives but also paving the way for a future where women’s health is prioritized and normalized in society.Takeaways: Gloria Kolb's personal battle with incontinence drove her to create Elitone, a groundbreaking external pelvic floor health device. Female founders face a daunting funding landscape, with only 2% of venture capital directed towards women's health innovations. Awareness is key; many women suffer in silence for years due to societal stigma surrounding incontinence and pelvic floor health. The healthcare system often prioritizes pads over effective treatments, perpetuating a cycle of dependency and embarrassment for women. Elitone's approach allows women to regain control of their pelvic health without invasive procedures, promoting early treatment and preventative care. Gloria emphasizes the importance of normalizing conversations around women's health issues, encouraging openness and support among communities.

Saturday Jan 11, 2025
From Swaddles to Solutions: Liz Hilton’s Journey in Postpartum Innovation
Saturday Jan 11, 2025
Saturday Jan 11, 2025
Liz Hilton is revolutionizing postpartum support with her innovative swaddle technology, the Swaddelini, designed to help babies sleep through the night. Host Lucinda Koza delves into Liz's inspiring journey from founding her company, KnitIt, to navigating the challenges of entrepreneurship while raising a family. Liz highlights the importance of community feedback in developing her products and discusses the impact of her work on babies with neonatal abstinence syndrome. A significant part of the conversation centers around Liz's new initiative, Project CHIP (Cultivating Health in Postpartum), which aims to provide solutions for postpartum challenges through a documentary that emphasizes the necessity of proactive measures and community support for new mothers. Together, they explore how investing in postpartum care can transform the experiences of mothers and their families, ultimately fostering a healthier society.Lucinda Koza's engaging discussion with Liz Hilton dives deep into the multifaceted world of postpartum support and innovation. Liz, an accomplished mother and entrepreneur, recounts her journey from launching KnitIt, a company specializing in soft goods, to developing the groundbreaking Swaddelini swaddle solution. This innovative product was born out of Liz's own parenting challenges, particularly the sleepless nights spent with a baby who would escape traditional swaddles. Drawing on her expertise in 3D knit programming, she crafted a swaddle that not only comforts but also addresses the developmental needs of infants, demonstrating how personal struggles can lead to impactful solutions. Throughout the episode, Liz shares candid insights into the struggles of balancing her entrepreneurial ambitions with the demands of motherhood. She highlights the pivotal role that community feedback has played in refining her products and shaping her business model. This dialogue emphasizes the need for mothers to connect and support one another, illustrating how shared experiences can foster innovation and enhance wellbeing. Liz also introduces her latest initiative, Project CHIP, which aims to shift the conversation around postpartum experiences from one of struggle to one of empowerment and support. Through a documentary lens, Project CHIP seeks to explore and promote healthy postpartum practices, emphasizing the importance of nourishing mothers and fostering community support. Liz's passion for creating a cultural shift in how postpartum care is viewed resonates strongly throughout the conversation, shedding light on the need for greater awareness and proactive measures in supporting new mothers. Her story serves as an inspiring reminder that with the right tools and community backing, mothers can thrive during the challenging early stages of parenthood.Takeaways: Liz Hilton's journey from a 3D knit engineer to a successful entrepreneur shows the power of innovation driven by personal necessity. The viral success of Swaddelini highlights the importance of community feedback in product development. Project CHIP aims to redefine postpartum support by focusing on solutions rather than just challenges. Empowering postpartum women through community support can significantly improve their well-being and recovery. Liz emphasizes the need for proactive measures in postpartum care, advocating for prioritizing women's health after childbirth. Cultural practices around postpartum care can play a crucial role in nurturing new mothers effectively. Companies mentioned in this episode: Knit It Swaddelini Project CHIP Village Postnatal Recovery Center Check out @swaddelini https://swaddelini.com/ A special thank you to @VETTEDDermlab Backed by science. Created by dermatologists. Effective and ethical ingredients. No gimmicks or fads. Use code LUCINDAK15 for 15% off your purchase: go.shopmy.us/p-11688145 Another special thank you to @kozakh2156 Jewelry. Uniquely on trend designer jewelry that’s waterproof, tarnish-proof, and sustainably handmade in the USA. Use code LUCINDA25 for 25% off: https://shopmy.us/collections/1146101

Tuesday Dec 10, 2024
From NICU to Novelist: Elaine Roth’s Journey of Resilience
Tuesday Dec 10, 2024
Tuesday Dec 10, 2024
Navigating the challenges of the NICU and the complexities of grief, Elaine Roth shares her poignant journey as a mother and writer with host Lucinda Koza. After the premature birth of her daughter, Elaine found herself facing the emotional turmoil of an emergency C-section and the uncertainty of her child's health in the NICU. Through candid storytelling, she reveals how writing became a crucial outlet for processing her experiences and emotions. Elaine’s debut book weaves together themes of loss, healing, and the magic that can arise from the depths of sorrow. This heartfelt conversation highlights the importance of self-advocacy in motherhood and the transformative power of storytelling as a means of navigating life's most difficult moments.Elaine Roth's journey through motherhood is one marked by unexpected challenges and profound resilience. In her conversation with host Lucinda Koza, she candidly shares the emotional rollercoaster of giving birth to her daughter nine weeks prematurely and the subsequent experiences in the NICU. Roth's narrative is both raw and enlightening as she recounts the fears that accompanied her emergency C-section and the subsequent struggle to navigate the complexities of caring for a fragile newborn in a hospital setting. The discussion highlights the critical importance of self-advocacy and intuition, as Roth emphasizes how she learned to trust her instincts amid medical uncertainties.As the episode unfolds, Roth delves into the healing power of storytelling and how writing became a refuge for her during tumultuous times. She discusses her debut book, which weaves together elements of grief and magical realism, providing insight into her creative process and the cathartic nature of writing. Roth's transition from a NICU mom to an author speaks to the transformative power of sharing one’s experiences, both for herself and for those who resonate with her story. Listeners will appreciate her reflections on balancing the demands of motherhood with her passion for writing, as well as her insights into how creative expression can serve as a powerful tool for healing.This episode is a celebration of the strength found in vulnerability and the importance of community in navigating life's challenges. Roth's story is a beacon of hope for parents facing similar circumstances, reminding them that they are not alone in their struggles. The conversation encourages listeners to embrace their narratives and recognize the beauty in their journeys, fostering connection and understanding through shared experiences.Takeaways: Elaine Roth's journey through her daughter's premature birth highlights the importance of maternal instincts and self-advocacy. The emotional challenges of navigating the NICU can lead to long-lasting impacts on parents. Writing can serve as a powerful tool for healing and processing grief and loss. Elaine's debut book intertwines themes of grief, magical realism, and the human experience. The podcast emphasizes that it's crucial to believe in your instincts as a parent. Elaine discusses how her experiences in the NICU shaped her writing and storytelling style. You can find Elaine Roth's recently published book, THE MIDNIGHT GARDEN, at the link below: https://go.shopmy.us/p-11109513 A special thank you to Vetted Dermlab. Backed by science. Created by dermatologists. Effective and ethical ingredients. No gimmicks or fads. Use code LUCINDAK15 for 15% off your purchase: go.shopmy.us/p-11688145 Another special thank you to KOZAKH Jewelry. Uniquely on trend designer jewelry that’s waterproof, tarnish-proof, and sustainably handmade in the USA. Use code LUCINDA25 for 25% off: https://shopmy.us/collections/1146101

Wednesday Dec 04, 2024
Shameless Mama Wellness: Redefining Self-Care for New Mothers
Wednesday Dec 04, 2024
Wednesday Dec 04, 2024
Overcoming birth trauma is a vital conversation that needs to be addressed, and Lucinda Koza sits down with perinatal mental health specialist Marilyn Cross Coleman to dive deep into this important topic. Marilyn shares her personal journey of experiencing a traumatic birth and postpartum depression, which inspired her to specialize in helping others navigate similar challenges. They discuss the profound impact of societal expectations on maternal mental health, emphasizing the necessity of self-care and the often overlooked feelings of shame and guilt that mothers face. Marilyn also highlights the effectiveness of EMDR therapy as a treatment for birth trauma, offering hope and healing for mothers who have endured such experiences. The dialogue encourages open conversations among mothers, aiming to foster awareness, validation, and support in the journey toward recovery.The emotional landscape of motherhood is complex, particularly for those who have navigated the tumultuous waters of birth trauma. Lucinda Koza engages with Marilyn Cross Coleman, a perinatal mental health expert, in an insightful dialogue that dives into the depths of postpartum challenges. Marilyn candidly shares her personal narrative of experiencing postpartum depression after her own traumatic birth, which serves as a powerful lens through which the conversation unfolds. Their discussion emphasizes the importance of recognizing birth trauma as a legitimate experience that warrants attention and care, challenging the stigma surrounding maternal mental health issues. Marilyn articulates the societal pressures that often compel mothers to suppress their feelings, leading to cycles of guilt and shame. The dialogue highlights the urgent need for a cultural shift that embraces self-care as a fundamental right for mothers, rather than a luxury. They explore the idea that when mothers prioritize their well-being, it not only benefits them but also enriches their families. Through this shared understanding, the episode fosters a supportive environment where mothers can feel empowered to voice their struggles and seek help. As they delve deeper, Marilyn introduces EMDR therapy as a transformative approach to healing birth trauma, explaining its efficacy in reprocessing traumatic events and facilitating emotional recovery. She emphasizes that healing is not only possible but can lead to profound personal growth—a theme that resonates throughout the episode. Ultimately, this conversation serves as a call to action for women to acknowledge their experiences, seek validation, and foster connections that can lead to healing and empowerment in their motherhood journey.Takeaways: Marilyn Cross Coleman emphasizes the necessity of addressing birth trauma for maternal healing. Self-care is crucial for mothers; neglecting it can harm the entire family dynamic. Shame and maternal guilt often overshadow women's experiences, making healing more difficult. Recognizing that every mother’s trauma is valid can facilitate better support and healing. Post-traumatic growth is achievable; sharing experiences can help diminish feelings of isolation. EMDR therapy offers an effective treatment for processing and healing from birth trauma. A special thank you to Vetted Dermlab. Backed by science. Created by dermatologists. Effective and ethical ingredients. No gimmicks or fads. Use code LUCINDAK15 for 15% off your purchase: go.shopmy.us/p-11688145 Another special thank you to KOZAKH Jewelry. Uniquely on trend designer jewelry that’s waterproof, tarnish-proof, and sustainably handmade in the USA. Use code LUCINDA25 for 25% off: https://shopmy.us/collections/1146101

Friday Nov 22, 2024
Friday Nov 22, 2024
Join us for a heartfelt conversation with Kristina Leos, a NICU nurse turned NICU mom, as she shares her powerful journey through postpartum depression following the birth of her daughter, Victoria. Kristina's unique perspective as both a healthcare professional and a parent highlights the emotional and psychological challenges faced by NICU families. She discusses the groundbreaking medication Zeranolone and her relentless quest for effective treatment, shedding light on the importance of mental health support. Kristina also emphasizes the need for greater awareness and understanding of postpartum depression, especially among NICU parents, and advocates for improved access to mental health care. This inspiring dialogue offers valuable insights for mothers navigating similar experiences and underscores the significance of community and support in the NICU journey.Kristina Leos, a dedicated NICU nurse from Midlothian, Texas, shares her transformative journey through postpartum depression after the birth of her daughter, Victoria. This episode captures the poignant intersection of her professional and personal experiences, as Kristina navigates the emotional complexities of being both a caregiver and a patient in the NICU. She reflects on the unique challenges that come with leaving your newborn in the care of others, a reality she had previously witnessed from the other side of the incubator. Kristina's narrative is not only a personal account but also a broader commentary on the emotional toll that NICU experiences can take on families, emphasizing the need for greater awareness and understanding of the psychological impacts of such journeys.As Kristina delves deeper into her mental health struggles, she recounts her relentless search for effective treatment, ultimately leading her to discover Zuranolone—a groundbreaking medication that significantly improved her condition. The episode highlights the importance of proactive mental health care, particularly for NICU mothers who often feel isolated and misunderstood. Kristina's story serves as a testament to the importance of seeking help and being open about mental health, encouraging other mothers facing similar battles to advocate for themselves and prioritize their well-being. Her candid discussion on the stigma surrounding postpartum depression invites listeners to engage in a broader dialogue about maternal mental health.Moreover, Kristina’s insights into the advancements in NICU technology and the emotional bonds formed among NICU moms reflect her passion for supporting her peers. She advocates for systemic changes to enhance mental health resources for NICU parents, addressing the often-overlooked psychological needs of families in crisis. The episode concludes with a heartfelt message about the power of shared experiences and community support, reminding listeners that they are not alone in their struggles. Kristina's journey is a powerful reminder of the resilience of mothers and the importance of mental health care in the face of adversity.Takeaways: Kristina's journey illustrates the dual challenge of being a NICU nurse and a NICU mom. Postpartum depression can impact any mother, regardless of previous mental health history or support. The introduction of Zuranolone represents a significant advancement in postpartum depression treatment options. Understanding the emotional toll of NICU experiences is vital for both families and healthcare providers. Mental health resources are crucial for NICU parents, yet access remains a significant barrier. Advocating for maternal mental health can lead to better support systems within healthcare settings. A special thank you to Vetted Dermlab. Backed by science. Created by dermatologists. Effective and ethical ingredients. No gimmicks or fads. Use code LUCINDAK15 for 15% off your purchase: go.shopmy.us/p-11688145 Another special thank you to KOZAKH Jewelry. Uniquely on trend designer jewelry that’s waterproof, tarnish-proof, and sustainably handmade in the USA. Use code LUCINDA25 for 25% off: https://shopmy.us/collections/1146101

Tuesday Oct 29, 2024
Breaking the Taboo: Real Talk on Postpartum Pleasure and Relationships
Tuesday Oct 29, 2024
Tuesday Oct 29, 2024
Rediscovering intimacy and pleasure postpartum is a vital yet often overlooked aspect of motherhood, and Nikkita Grady is here to shed light on this critical journey. As a certified postpartum pleasure and intimacy coach, Nikkita shares her personal experiences following a miscarriage in 2021, which ignited her passion for helping mothers reconnect with their bodies and partners. She addresses the taboos surrounding postpartum intimacy, emphasizing that conversations often focus on depression and physical changes while neglecting the emotional and relational impacts of becoming a parent. Throughout the discussion, Nikkita provides practical insights on self-care, communication challenges, and the importance of establishing boundaries within oneself and with partners. Join us for an enlightening conversation aimed at breaking the silence around postpartum struggles and supporting women in rediscovering pleasure in their lives.Navigating the postpartum period can often feel isolating and overwhelming, particularly when it comes to intimacy and personal identity. Nikkita Grady, a certified postpartum pleasure and intimacy coach, sheds light on these critical yet often overlooked aspects of motherhood. Following her own experience with miscarriage and the subsequent challenges in her relationship, Nikkita was inspired to help other mothers rediscover their bodies and relationships after childbirth. Her insights shine a light on the necessity of addressing the emotional and sexual dynamics that can change dramatically in the postpartum phase.Central to Nikkita's message is the idea that self-care is essential for mothers to feel empowered and connected. During the conversation, she discusses the myriad of ways in which mothers can reclaim their sense of self through small acts of self-care and intentional communication with their partners. She argues that society's focus on physical recovery often neglects the emotional and psychological factors that contribute to a mother’s well-being. Her coaching encourages women to prioritize their desires and needs, which can lead to more fulfilling relationships.Furthermore, Nikkita addresses the societal taboos surrounding discussions of postpartum intimacy, emphasizing that many women feel alone in their struggles. By creating a space for open dialogue, she helps dismantle these stigmas, encouraging mothers to embrace their experiences without shame. The conversation is rich with practical advice and personal anecdotes, leaving listeners inspired to take action in their own lives. Nikkita’s work goes beyond just intimacy coaching; it’s about nurturing a holistic approach to motherhood that encompasses pleasure, self-acceptance, and joy in the midst of challenges.Takeaways: Nikkita Grady highlights the often overlooked importance of intimacy and pleasure in postpartum life. Mothers frequently neglect self-care, which significantly impacts their well-being and relationships. Effective communication with partners is crucial, yet often lacking in postpartum experiences. Rediscovering personal identity and pleasure can help mothers regain confidence in their bodies. Nikkita emphasizes that postpartum challenges can vary greatly from one woman to another. A special thank you to Vetted Dermlab. Backed by science. Created by dermatologists. Effective and ethical ingredients. No gimmicks or fads. Use code LUCINDAK15 for 15% off your purchase: go.shopmy.us/p-11688145 Another special thank you to KOZAKH Jewelry. Uniquely on trend designer jewelry that’s waterproof, tarnish-proof, and sustainably handmade in the USA. Use code LUCINDA25 for 25% off: https://shopmy.us/collections/1146101

Saturday Oct 26, 2024
Saturday Oct 26, 2024
Join us as we explore empowering in-hospital birth practices with Angela Anderson, a dedicated certified nurse midwife with nearly three decades of experience. Angela emphasizes the importance of trauma-informed care, informed consent, and shared decision-making to ensure respectful and empowering birth experiences for all. We discuss innovative practices such as water births, the use of nitrous oxide for pain relief during labor, and family-centered cesareans that enhance maternal and newborn outcomes. Angela also shares insights from her work on the Simply Birth Program, which creates a supportive, home-like environment within the hospital setting. Additionally, we reflect on the empowering messages from the recent 'Barbie' movie, linking them to women's rights and the advocacy work in midwifery, ultimately inspiring hope and change in maternity care.Angela Anderson, a certified nurse midwife with nearly three decades of experience, shares her profound journey into the world of midwifery, emphasizing the importance of empowering birth practices that respect women's autonomy. Growing up on a sheep farm, she developed a passion for birth that led her to a fulfilling career in midwifery instead of traditional obstetrics. Anderson highlights the midwifery model, which views pregnancy and childbirth as natural processes and prioritizes the preferences and autonomy of birthing individuals. This episode delves into innovative practices in childbirth, such as water births and family-centered cesareans, which aim to create a more supportive environment for mothers and newborns. Anderson also discusses the Simply Birth Program, which provides a more home-like atmosphere within hospitals, allowing for personalized care that honors the birthing experience. The conversation focuses on how these advancements contribute to better maternal and neonatal outcomes, making birth a more empowering experience for families.A significant portion of the discussion centers around trauma-informed care and the necessity for healthcare providers to engage in respectful communication with patients. Anderson emphasizes informed consent and shared decision-making as vital components of a positive birthing experience. The episode addresses the trauma that women often associate with childbirth, even when the medical outcomes are favorable, underscoring the need for debriefing and support in the postpartum period. Anderson advocates for a culture shift in maternity care, where providers prioritize understanding and addressing the emotional and psychological needs of their patients. The episode concludes with reflections on the impact of the Barbie movie, which resonates with themes of women's empowerment and the importance of advocating for respectful maternity care. Through her insights, Anderson inspires listeners to recognize the transformative potential of compassionate care and the ongoing need for advocacy in maternal health.Takeaways: Angela Anderson emphasizes the importance of empowering women through informed consent and shared decision-making in childbirth. Innovative practices like water births and family-centered cesareans enhance the birthing experience for mothers and families alike. Trauma-informed care is crucial in maternity settings to ensure women feel safe and respected during childbirth. The Simply Birth Program creates a home-like environment within hospitals to promote natural, empowering birth experiences. Angela's work highlights how vital it is to debrief and support women after traumatic birth experiences. The conversation reflects on how cultural narratives, like those in the 'Barbie' movie, can inspire women's empowerment and advocacy in healthcare. Companies mentioned in this episode: Intermountain Health Utah Women and Newborns Quality Collaborative UWINK Authority Magazine Utah Health and Human Services Department A special thank you to Vetted Dermlab. Backed by science. Created by dermatologists. Effective and ethical ingredients. No gimmicks or fads. Use code LUCINDAK15 for 15% off your purchase: go.shopmy.us/p-11688145 Another special thank you to KOZAKH Jewelry. Uniquely on trend designer jewelry that’s waterproof, tarnish-proof, and sustainably handmade in the USA. Use code LUCINDA25 for 25% off: https://shopmy.us/collections/1146101

Monday Oct 21, 2024
Revolutionizing Motherhood: Holistic Fitness for Women with Rachel Welch
Monday Oct 21, 2024
Monday Oct 21, 2024
As a gift to our listeners, Revolution Motherhood is offering 3 months free with the code RMMAMA at https://www.revolutionmotherhood.com Rachel Welch, founder of Revolution Motherhood, emphasizes the need for a holistic approach to fitness and wellness that specifically addresses the unique physiological changes women experience from prenatal to postnatal stages. She critiques traditional fitness programs for being male-centric and highlights the emotional and physical challenges that new mothers face, particularly during postpartum recovery. Rachel offers practical advice on integrating mindful movements and utilizing tools like soft foam rollers to support healing and rejuvenation. She encourages women to embrace their emotions and prioritize self-education as a means to foster lifelong well-being. The conversation also explores the significance of holding values closely while remaining flexible in expectations, ultimately aiming to empower women throughout their motherhood journey.Rachel Welch's insights into the intersection of motherhood and wellness challenge conventional fitness paradigms, advocating for a radical rethinking of how women approach their physical health. As the founder of Revolution Motherhood, she addresses the critical gaps in the fitness industry, particularly the overwhelming male-centric methodologies that often leave women feeling unsupported. Through her personal experiences, Rachel illustrates the complexities that arise during pregnancy and postpartum, highlighting the emotional and physical challenges that are frequently ignored. She emphasizes the need for a supportive, holistic framework that respects women's unique physiological experiences and empowers them to take charge of their health and wellness journeys.The dialogue navigates the emotional landscape of new motherhood, where Rachel provides actionable strategies for integrating physical activity into daily life. She discusses the significance of mindfulness and gentle movement, encouraging mothers to tune into their bodies and respond to their needs. Practical advice, such as using soft foam rollers to relieve tension and reconnect with core muscles, underscores the message that fitness should be a nurturing and adaptive practice rather than a punitive one. Rachel's approach is rooted in compassion and understanding, promoting the idea that self-care is not only vital for physical recovery but also crucial for mental and emotional well-being. By addressing common misconceptions and societal pressures, she aims to redefine how women perceive themselves post-birth and throughout their lives.Ultimately, Rachel's perspective positions motherhood as a transformative journey that offers profound opportunities for growth and self-discovery. She advocates for a narrative that celebrates the resilience and strength of women, encouraging them to embrace their multifaceted identities. By fostering a community of support and education, Rachel empowers women to rewrite the stories they inherited and to cultivate a life that is vibrant and fulfilling. This episode serves as both a guide and an inspiration for women seeking to navigate the complexities of motherhood while prioritizing their own health and happiness.Takeaways: Rachel Welch emphasizes the need for fitness programs to be tailored specifically to women's unique physiological changes throughout different life stages. Traditional fitness methodologies have often overlooked women's specific needs, focusing instead on male-centric paradigms. Listening to your body during postpartum recovery is crucial for emotional and physical healing. Motherhood presents a significant opportunity for personal growth, impacting emotional resilience and strength. Integrating holistic wellness practices can help new moms navigate the complexities of postpartum recovery. Mindfulness and gentle movement, such as using a soft foam roller, can support healing and promote well-being. Companies mentioned in this episode: Revolution Motherhood A special thank you to Vetted Dermlab. Backed by science. Created by dermatologists. Effective and ethical ingredients. No gimmicks or fads. Use code LUCINDAK15 for 15% off your purchase: go.shopmy.us/p-11688145 Another special thank you to KOZAKH Jewelry. Uniquely on trend designer jewelry that’s waterproof, tarnish-proof, and sustainably handmade in the USA. Use code LUCINDA25 for 25% off: https://shopmy.us/collections/1146101

Saturday Oct 19, 2024
Finding Your Easy Button: Tips from a Mom of Twins
Saturday Oct 19, 2024
Saturday Oct 19, 2024
A licensed therapist and mother of six-year-old twins shares her honest journey of navigating the emotional and logistical challenges of raising multiples while managing a professional career. She delves into her experiences with postpartum depression and the struggles faced during the first two years, emphasizing the unrealistic expectations society places on mothers, especially those of twins. The conversation highlights the critical importance of self-care, seeking support, and setting realistic expectations to cope with the unique stresses of parenting. As she reflects on the evolving dynamics of her family life, she discusses how she adapted to the changing needs of her children and the value of having a strong support system. Through practical strategies and personal insights, she offers encouragement to other twin moms, reassuring them that while the journey is tough, it does get better.Navigating the complexities of motherhood, especially as a licensed therapist and mother of twins, offers a unique perspective on the emotional and logistical challenges that many parents face. The conversation delves into the raw experiences of postpartum depression and the often unspoken realities of the first two years of parenting twins. With candid reflections, the speaker shares her journey, highlighting the societal pressures to maintain a facade of happiness while managing the chaos of raising multiples. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-care, recognizing the need for support, and the significance of allowing oneself to feel a range of emotions without guilt. This honest discourse not only sheds light on the difficulties of balancing a professional life with the demands of motherhood but also encourages listeners to embrace their experiences and seek help when necessary.Another critical theme is the discussion around societal expectations of mothers, particularly those with twins. The interview highlights how these expectations can lead to feelings of isolation and inadequacy, especially when the reality of parenting doesn't align with the idealized versions presented in media and society. The speaker challenges listeners to rebel against these narratives and redefine what it means to be a Takeaways: The first two years of parenting twins can be incredibly challenging and overwhelming, but they get better with time. It's essential for mothers to embrace their emotions and seek support when needed, especially during tough times. Setting realistic expectations and allowing oneself to adapt to the realities of parenting can ease stress. Mothers of multiples often face unique societal pressures that can make their experiences feel isolating. Creating a solid support system, including childcare options, can significantly improve the parenting experience. Finding joy in small moments and allowing for personal space can enhance overall well-being as a parent. A special thank you to Vetted Dermlab. Backed by science. Created by dermatologists. Effective and ethical ingredients. No gimmicks or fads. Use code LUCINDAK15 for 15% off your purchase: go.shopmy.us/p-11688145 Another special thank you to KOZAKH Jewelry. Uniquely on trend designer jewelry that’s waterproof, tarnish-proof, and sustainably handmade in the USA. Use code LUCINDA25 for 25% off: https://shopmy.us/collections/1146101

Monday Oct 14, 2024
Moms for Mental Health: Building Community and Support for Mothers
Monday Oct 14, 2024
Monday Oct 14, 2024
Jillian Amodio, a licensed social worker, shares her powerful journey through postpartum depression and the profound impact it has had on her life and career. Driven by her own struggles, she founded Moms for Mental Health, a supportive community for mothers facing similar challenges. Throughout the conversation, Jillian emphasizes the importance of tailored support for different personality types, highlighting the unique needs of both introverted and extroverted individuals dealing with social anxiety and burnout. She candidly discusses her experiences with endometriosis, the difficulties of pregnancy, and the emotional aftermath of an emergency C-section. Jillian’s story is a testament to resilience and the vital role of community, compassion, and understanding in overcoming mental health challenges and finding one's identity as a mother and professional.Jillian, a licensed social worker, opens up about her deeply personal journey through motherhood and mental health, specifically highlighting her struggles with postpartum depression following the births of her children. Her story is not only one of hardship but also of resilience and community. After experiencing her own battles with mental health, Jillian founded Moms for Mental Health, a grassroots organization that provides a supportive and nonjudgmental space for mothers facing similar challenges. Initially starting as a small coffee group for moms, it has blossomed into a thriving community that offers innovative support strategies tailored to different personality types, whether introverted or extroverted. Jillian emphasizes the importance of finding connection in motherhood, as no one should navigate the ups and downs alone. Throughout the conversation, Jillian shares her experiences with endometriosis, the complexities of her pregnancies, and the overwhelming feelings of inadequacy that followed her emergency C-section. Her candid reflections reveal how postpartum depression can manifest in unexpected ways, including intrusive thoughts and deep feelings of unworthiness. The episode highlights the critical role of community support, as Jillian recounts how friends and family attempted to help, yet often struggled to address the underlying issues of mental health. What stands out is Jillian's commitment to creating safe spaces for mothers to express their vulnerabilities, allowing for healing and understanding.As Jillian transitioned into her work as a social worker, she brings her lived experiences into her practice, making her a compassionate advocate for mental health. She discusses the importance of validating the experiences of clients who express suicidal thoughts, emphasizing that these moments require immense bravery. The episode culminates in a powerful reminder that mothers are not defined solely by their roles; rather, they are multi-faceted individuals who also need to pursue their own identities and passions. Jillian’s story is a testament to the strength found in vulnerability and the transformative power of community, serving as an inspiring guide for those navigating the often tumultuous waters of motherhood and mental health.Takeaways: Motherhood can be isolating, and building community support is crucial for mental health. Jillian's experience highlights the importance of tailored support for different personality types. Postpartum depression can manifest in many ways and is often misunderstood by others. The journey through mental health struggles can lead to a deeper understanding of oneself. It's vital to recognize that being a mother doesn't define your entire identity. Seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness, especially in mental health. A special thank you to Vetted Dermlab. Backed by science. Created by dermatologists. Effective and ethical ingredients. No gimmicks or fads. Use code LUCINDAK15 for 15% off your purchase: go.shopmy.us/p-11688145 Another special thank you to KOZAKH Jewelry. Uniquely on trend designer jewelry that’s waterproof, tarnish-proof, and sustainably handmade in the USA. Use code LUCINDA25 for 25% off: https://shopmy.us/collections/1146101